What’s Missing?

I love the book of Acts, especially Acts 2. I read the account of the pouring out of the Holy Spirit and it leaves me just mind blown! As you read through this chapter, you see the call to repentance and baptism, and then you see the belonging of the Church, the way they drew together to learn from the apostle’s, to fellowship (the new believer’s desired to be with the people of God), breaking bread together (most likely this speaks to both sharing in communion with each other as well as common meals), and they prayed (this was a regular practice of the early Church and it expressed their total dependence on the Lord) together. They did these things daily! Could you imagine if the Church today still desired all of these things? So what is missing in the Church today? Well, I believe it is the presence of the Holy Spirit. Before anything else, before Peter preached this amazing sermon that essentially began the Church as 3,000 people repented and were baptized in faith in Jesus Christ, before gathering together, before breaking bread together, before praying together – It ALL began with the presence of the Holy Spirit! We have to get back to a place of desiring the Presence of God through the Holy Spirit in our lives, so that His presence is alive in the Church. We have to stop being afraid of the Holy Spirit and invite Him in!

“One of the most telling blows which the enemy ever struck at the life of the Church was to create in her a fear of the Holy Spirit.”– A.W. Tozer

As believers in Jesus Christ we are indwelt with the Holy Spirit the moment we profess saving faith in Jesus – we are sealed. Being sealed by the Holy Spirit is God’s way of marking us as His, but it is also His way of equipping us and empowering us to live the life He calls us to live in Christ. We need to be filled with the Holy Spirit continually. How do we do this? We must be in God’s Word, studying it, applying it, meditating on it. We need to be people of prayer, seeking and listening to God. We must be people who are living in obedience to the Lord. This doesn’t just happen. It takes intention. The apostle Paul encourages the Church to be filled with the Spirit. Galatians 5:16 “Walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” “Flesh” everything in us that opposes God and His will. Why does Paul encourage walking in the Spirit? Because the flesh and the spirit are always contending with each other and the only way for us to overcome the desires or lusts of the flesh in our lives is to be continually filled with the Holy Spirit. Today’s Church is more reflective of a church that wants ‘saving’, but not transformation. Today’s Church wants the benefits of the Holy Spirit in ways such as healing people of sickness, but it doesn’t want the fullness of His presence because it might be weird or uncomfortable. Here is the thing- we either want the Holy Spirit or we don’t. There is no half way. We have to have Him continually filling us, equipping us, empowering us, or we will never accomplish what He has called us to do. We also need His conviction when we are living in ways that the Lord does not desire for us. Have you ever considered that walking in the Spirit and experiencing His presence is only weird and uncomfortable because we don’t do it?

Maybe you take vitamins every day. Why? Most likely you want to be healthy, strong, and be able to function the best you can day to day. For the believer who is filled daily with the Holy Spirit, it’s the same concept. He enables us to live and accomplish the things that God has put before us to do and He helps us to be spiritually strong. Jesus needed to be filled with the Holy Spirit, so how much more do we? That’s it. StraightUp!

What’s On Your Mind?

About three weeks ago we had a guest speaker at our church and he said something about the need to renew our minds. Well, it was actually a confirmation for me to write this post! What’s On Your Mind? Because what’s on your mind has a huge impact on everything else in your life.

Every now and then I hear women say that they don’t have time to spend in the Word (Bible) on a regular basis, but yet they are struggling, stressed, full of anxiety etc. Other times I hear “Christians” swear like it is no big deal – this was the case about two months ago as I was talking to a believer and they kept using cuss words. It might be one thing to let a word fly because we stub our toe on the foot of a table or something, but to use swear words like every day normal language, that is not what the Lord desires for His people. What we think tends to impact what we say. We are told in the Word that our speech should be good and it should build up and encourage others. So why is this? Well, some of it is because a large part of the Church still prefers to be influenced by the culture we live rather than by the Holy Spirit and some of it is because of a lack of spiritual growth in the Church. We see in scripture that we are not to conform to the world (culture) we live in, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. Why? Because, if we don’t allow the Word of God which is a living, active word transform our minds we are going to have a difficult time knowing and understanding what pleases Him, what He desires of us and for us, and we are going to have a hard time thinking the way He thinks. This transformation comes through spending time in His Word on a daily basis. How do you get to know someone if you never spend time with them? We can’t know God without spending time with Him, talking with Him, listening to Him – an important part of that process is reading what He has said to us in His Word.

In 2018 only 15% of surveyed Christians spent time reading their Bible on a daily basis. Yikes! 26% spent 15 – 30 minutes in their Bible when they did read it, and only 7% spent 45- 59 minutes in their Bible when they read it. Yet, on average people spend 3.5 hours on their phone or device daily and spend on average about 5 hours watching TV (it’s more if they are watching things that are on DVR). Maybe you are thinking, “I spend 5 minutes a day reading Jesus Calling” or something like it – Here is the thing. Even if we read a few minutes of scripture a couple days a week, even daily, the Word is still the least of what is being taken in and processed by our minds. We only think that we are ‘renewing’ our minds. In order for the Word of God to transform our minds it has to be what is taking up the most space in our minds! If I spend 20 minutes reading scripture then turn on secular radio for the next 3 hours of my day, what do you think is having more impact on my mind? Not the Word of God that I just read.  Ephesians 4:23-24 Paul talks again about our old nature being gone and being renewed in the way we think! It’s not that we don’t have time to spend with God in His Word, it’s that we are NOT willing to make time to be in His Word. The believer’s relationship with the Lord is just like any relationship they have with a spouse or friend…to develop them takes intentional time. If we want our minds to experience the transformational power of God’s Word, we MUST be intentional in making that time! If we do this we will be amazed to find that we are less stressed and have more peace rather than anxiety. So, what’s on your mind? That’s it. StraightUp!

“Finally brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest (noble), whatever things are right, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are praise-worthy, THINK on these things.” Philippines 4:8

Everything is Permissible

Everything is permissible, but not everything is good for us! Galatians 5:13 says, “For you were called to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love.” We have liberty as believers, but that liberty doesn’t mean that we can sin. As Believers we are called to love and build up others (John 13:34), especially believer’s! So, here is another problem with alcohol and our being follower’s of Jesus- who are we causing to stumble? Ever think about that? Maybe you have and don’t take it all that seriously. The freedom we have in Christ is not meant to be self focused, it is meant to teach us how to love the Body the way Christ loves the Body. Here is some interesting statistics – more than 15 million people in America last year were classified as alcohol abusers. That means that at least 1 out of every 14 adults has an issue with alcohol. Then take into account how many of these people have relatives who have drinking problems. So, 1 out of every 14 adults struggle with alcohol, ever think about the fact that one of them might just be sitting next to you in church? You might be thinking, “big deal” – it is a big deal! If we are called to love and build up our brothers and sisters in Christ, there is no place for alcohol use in the Church.

What if I am hosting a day at the lake and I invite a few Christian friends, some I know choose not to drink because they feel it is not appropriate for them as believer’s and I invite a couple of friends who are recovering alcoholics, but I still choose to drink and have alcohol available to everyone- I am NOT loving my friends! I am not building up my brothers and sisters in Christ. I am setting them up to face peer pressure to drink so they feel like they fit in or I am placing a huge bowl of temptation in front of them. I don’t know about you, but that is not the friend I want to be! If I am going to invite them knowing where they are in the lives and walk with the Lord, I should not have alcohol any where around. Then, as an adult in the church, what am setting as my witness to the younger generation about living set apart for the Lord, living in a manner worthy of the calling we have been given in Christ? Romans 14:13 – “So let’s stop condemning each other (we should be judging ourselves, checking our actions so that we are not placing a stumbling block before those we are suppose to be loving and building up). Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble or fall.” Church, if we are causing others to stumble (whether by alcohol or any other thing) we are sinning! Church it is time to wake up! We can NOT serve the Lord and serve our flesh. We have to pick one or the other!

We should always be desiring to choose what is right and pleasing to God simply out of our love for Jesus and for others. Again, it goes back to living in our new nature in Christ and leaving behind everything of our old nature. If we are growing, changing, maturing in our walk with Jesus, why are we still desiring to live in the old flesh that He died to set us free from?

I believe one reason we have areas where God gives us freedom to choose is to expose our growth, our maturity in Christ. Will we choose our flesh and what it desires or will we choose what reflects His Presence in our lives and do the most good for Him? Maturity comes from daily becoming more like Him, time in His Word, time in His Presence, letting Him change our thinking and our desires so that they line up with His. Maturity comes in the shape of obedience. Obedience requires surrender. What are you willing to surrender? That’s it. StraightUp!

1 Peter 2:2-3 “Like newborn babies desire the pure milk of the word, so that you may grow up into your salvation, if you have tasted that the Lord is good.”

What’s Your Motivation

We live in a time when EVERYTHING goes (except faith, morals, good character, Truth etc.) and we are constantly hearing how we are in control of our happiness and making the kind of life that we desire. We are free to do whatever makes us feel good and feel accepted by others. If you believe that, you are living in deception! And deception is alive and well, even in the Church. The Church has become a place to entertain people and maybe slip a loose bit of truth in there somewhere. The Church is more and more reflecting the ideals of the world, rather than being the powerful image of Jesus Christ that it should be. Twenty years ago there was hardly a believer that drank alcohol regularly. Today probably the majority of those who profess to be believers drink regularly – that is a slight progression of deception.

In Biblical times, a main issue for the Church was eating food that was presented to idols as a sacrifice. We don’t really have much of that going on in today’s culture, but if we were to take an honest look at what would be the comparable issue in today’s culture and the Church – it’s alcohol. Drinking. Go ahead and roll your eyes! Say I am being judgmental etc. – nope not in the least! I don’t need to judge. God is well able to handle that all on His own. I will tell you that He laid this issue before me a few years ago, even though I have never really been much of a drinker, there it was laid out on the table for me to choose what was more important to me – Him or something like drinking, which is actually a desire of the flesh. I chose Him of course! He is my motivation in everything. So, He is my motivation not to drink alcohol. His Word is my motivation to not drink alcohol. We don’t need alcohol in the times we live, we have tons of other choices of things to drink in place of alcoholic beverages. In the day and culture of the Bible, they didn’t have the choices we do and wine made from different fruits was common. Alcohol for us really comes down to preference. Most people who drink as believers also drank alcohol before coming to Christ or they grew up in a Christian home and when they had the opportunity to drink they did. Ephesians 5:18 – “Don’t be drunk with wine (alcohol), because it will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit.” Other versions of scripture use words like ‘debauchery’ or ‘dissipation’ or ‘rebellion’…I obviously chose a translation that just says it plain and simple! I’m not sure who said this, but it is right on! All human behavior has motivation behind it… as followers of Jesus Christ, what is motivating us to drink alcohol? It isn’t Jesus. I will tell you. It’s our FLESH! In the scripture I posted above, the Apostle Paul wasn’t trying to prove that Christians shouldn’t drink, but more to point out that when a person says ‘Yes’ to Jesus their life of drinking, the ‘partying’ lifestyle no longer has a place in the NEW life of that person. Yep! I can hear you saying back to the screen, “The Bible doesn’t say that drinking is a sin.” You’re right. Have you ever considered that why you (personal for the ones talking back to the screen) chose to drink alcohol might actually be where the sin issue lies? I didn’t think so. Let’s look at some of the most common reasons people, Christians and non-Christians alike, choose to drink-

Stress, Worry, Anxiety are reasons people choose to drink, but as believers we are told in God’s Word what to do when we are worried, weighed down by stress or anxious. Philippians 4:6-7 we are told not to worry about anything, not to be anxious, but to PRAY about everything. To tell God what we need and to thank Him for all He has done. Why, to experience His peace. His peace guards our hearts and minds as we live for Him. Another scripture – 1 Peter 5:7 we are told to give ALL our worries to God. (Matthew 6:25-34) Drinking to deal with worry, stress, anxiety might just be sin!

Fitting In/ Friendship are other reasons people drink alcohol, even if they don’t typically drink they will drink to feel as though they fit in, to be accepted. (just so you know, this is peer pressure so if we are the ones causing the pressure to drink, we are definitely in the wrong!) If we as Christians are drinking so that we will be liked, to feel accepted or anything else along those lines…ouch. We are not suppose to fit in with the world. If drinking with non-believers is the only way you fit in with them guess what YOU are not suppose to fit in. Romans 12:2 tells us straight up, do not conform to this world. If you study on the usage of ‘conform’ it is saying, “Do not let the world squeeze you into its form.” or 1 Corinthians 15:33 tells us that bad company corrupts good character. We are also told that friendship with the world makes us an enemy of God. That should motivate us to choose wisely! Galatians 2:20 tells us that our old self has been crucified with Christ, it is no longer us who live, but Christ lives in us. We can not live for the flesh and walk in the Spirit – we have to choose! Again, this may be where drinking is causing us to sin.

So, drinking may not be pointed out as sin in the Bible, but the reasons we are drinking just might be the sin issue. So, what is your motivation in drinking? That’s it. StraightUp!

What’s In a Name? Part 2

Our identity as believers is in Christ. His name is the name we bear, we are marked by God with the Holy Spirit. (Ephesians 1:13). So when we label ourselves as a ‘hypocrite’ we are really speaking against our identity in Christ. We are sinners, everyone is. Everyone falls short of the glory of God. Even in Christ we are going to sin at times, that is our struggle as long as we are here. However, there is a difference between continuing to sin and living in sin. If we are truly walking with the Lord, we are growing to become more and more like Christ (the daily goal in the Christian life) we will still sin, but as we are growing and maturing in Christ it should be less and less not as someone who is still a slave to their sin nature. Just because we sin that doesn’t mean we are a hypocrite, because when we sin a true believer is going to go before the Lord with a repentant heart; we confess our sin with a sincere and contrite heart. (1 John 1:9) we don’t sin and stay there. Now, those who say they are believers, but knowingly and willingly walk in sin, they are however hypocrites (by definition) – they have no sorrow for their sin and live to satisfy their flesh. Their ultimate desire is not to become more like Christ, it is to satisfy their own desires. So, it could be that they don’t truly walk with the Lord. Unfortunately, there are these believers in the Church. That is why it is so important that as true believers we consider what our lives are reflecting – our social activities, our hobbies, the movies we watch, our speech, our attitudes etc. Have you ever met someone and noticed that there is a certain standard of character that they seem to live by just because of who they are? Who or what their family represents? You see it a lot in California. As sons/daughters of God, are we living in a way that reflects the standard of God’s character? Are we living in such away that reflects whose we are? Are we living in such a way that we know that hypocrite is not our name? Your entire identity is in a name. As a believer, it’s in the name of Jesus. That’s it. StraightUp!

What’s In a Name? Part 1

Today I was in a phone conversation with a friend who was telling me about some people who don’t want to attend their church any more because it’s full of hypocrites. That statement made my mind flash back to a conversation the Lord and I had back in 2017. I remembered hearing someone, a believer, say, “I’m a hypocrite.” This wasn’t the first time I heard a believer label themselves a hypocrite, but it frustrated me! So, as is normal for me, I went to the Lord with a “why” – Lord, why are Christians referring to themselves as hypocrites? Hypocrite is a label that the world sticks on Christians. Why are they sticking it on themselves?

What is a hypocrite? A person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs. principles etc. that he or she does not actually possess. Especially a person whose actions be lie (fail to give true notion or impression of something) stated beliefs. If you are a believer in Jesus Christ you can not identify yourself as a hypocrite, your identity is in Christ. You are a son/daughter of God. (2 Corinthians 6:18) So if you are in Christ, the only way you can say you are a hypocrite is He would have to be a hypocrite. (Yes, a person who only says they believe in Jesus and really doesn’t could label themselves this way, but I’m talking about true believers.) – Jesus is no hypocrite. He is holy. We are the righteousness of God in Christ! (2 Corinthians 5:21) – So what’s in a name? A lot! Because we identify with who we say we are. –

Living Set Apart Part 2

Sanctification means to be set apart; to consecrate; to free from sin; to purify. It is the process of being made holy. Sanctification is a gift given to us from God, but what we fail to realize often is that this is a process that requires action on our part. This is God’s will for those who profess to follow Jesus. 1 Peter 1:15 “but as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct.” That is what we should be striving for daily! The process of sanctification and transformation come by the Holy Spirit working in us and He will always do His part, but we have to do ours. In 2 Peter 3:18 we are told to “Grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” Grow is an action. Growing in grace is our increasing in Christ likeness and growth in knowledge is growing in our relationship with the Lord through the study of His Word and placing our lives under its authority.

Another verse that shows that we are to be active in the process of sanctification is Romans 12:2 “Do not copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” If we aren’t changing, we aren’t growing. We are told to grow. We are told NOT to copy the behavior and customs of this world. Those sound a lot like commands. We are called to be set apart, but so many in the Church today blend in with the world more than they do Christ. As we step into this new year, I want to encourage you to be a woman who lives her life daily ‘set apart’! Will it be easy? No. Will it be uncomfortable? At times, because you might find yourself having to let go of people (even other Christians), things, or activities in order to live a life set apart for Jesus. Let the Holy Spirit find those ugly bumps and be willing to let Him grind them down!

Living Set Apart Part 1

One of my favorite things to do is create things, specifically crosses (the Lord’s choice) out of metal. When I create with metal, the Lord speaks! I’m not the best welder so I had to grind down my welds on the crosses (it adds some neat character anyway). As I was grinding the welds on the first cross, the Lord said, “This is sanctification. The daily grinding away of the flesh until perfection.” Biblically ‘flesh’ is speaking to our natural desires and/or our worldly desires, so the image of the “daily grinding away of our flesh” was really a neat picture of the process.

Most of us know that sanctification is a process and part of that process is transformation. If you imagine my metal cross with some ugly bumps scattered here and there – our fleshly desires – then imagine the transformation of the metal as I used the grinder to remove those ugly bumps. It was a process. This process is sometimes where the Church goes overboard in grace giving and not calling out sin because we are all in the ‘process’ that won’t be completed until Jesus comes once and for all. Yes, those who believe in Jesus are in this process, but this is a process that brings about transformation. Transformation is change!

Walking in the Newness of Christ

I’m not really one to make New Years resolutions, but I do usually ask the Lord for a word or scripture to give me an idea of where we (He and I) are going to be focusing for the new year. This year my word is Renewal. This could be speaking to a few things in my personal life, I’m not really sure yet – it is only the end of the first week of the new year! In reality, I could use renewal on a daily basis – I could use a renewal of strength, a renewing in my desire to persevere in the hard things I deal with, and some days I need a renewing of my mind. As the Lord has been talking about sanctification and I have thought about the word He gave me ‘Renewal’ – it led Him to talking about newness in Christ. I love when He reminds me that I am a new creation in Christ! I have been made in His likeness, to walk in His purpose, by His power! I need this reminder, because Satan is always on the attack and I don’t want to be pulled back into who I am apart from Christ.

2 Corinthians 5:17 says, ” Therefore, (what is that there for…) if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come.” Do we really get this? Sometimes I wonder. ‘ Therefore’ refers back to verses 14-16 where the Apostle Paul tells us (believers) that we have died with Christ and we no longer live for ourselves. I came across this in a commentary a couple of years ago and I love it!

Jesus didn’t die for you so you could keep living your life. Jesus died for you so He could live His life in you.” – Unknown

Let that sink in! It is not about us! It is ALL about Him! But so many of us still live as though it is about us. So many of us live as if we are still stuck in our old sinful nature following the motto of ” I love Jesus, but I cuss a little” and other motto’s of the same nature. There’s a problem when the Church is living by this type of motto – we are new creations in Christ! If we are in Christ, if we are living in the newness of Christ, if we are renewing our minds with the Word – this should not be a motto we claim. Instead, we should be claiming, even declaring “I am a New creation! I am created in the IMAGE of God!” Ephesians 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (1 Peter 3:10, James 3:9-12). The old is gone! That is EVERYTHING that is apart of our old nature – pride, love of sin, depending on works, fleshly opinions, habits, and passions. They are gone. We have to stop dragging them along with us as we walk in our new nature. We need to delight in the things of God and hate the things that are of the world (basically the age and culture we live in).

Sanctification, the day by day process of being made holy, sinning less and hating the times we do sin more and more. Romans 6:6-7 “We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin. For one who has died has been set free from sin.”

It’s time to start walking in the newness of Christ! It’s time to remind the devil that you are no longer bound by your sin! YouTube Chris Tomlin’s song Resurrection Power make it your new motto! – That’s it. StraightUp!

Why StraightUp?

For sometime there has been something stirring in me regarding a blog, but I have never been one of those women who just sit around dreaming of being a blogger. I began praying about this! Asking the Lord if this is just me or if it was in fact Him nudging me to step out into another means of serving Him, a new way of encouraging women and building them up? I just didn’t know.

One night after some prayer time, where I again asked the Lord about this ongoing thought of writing a blog, I told the Lord, “Okay. If this is You…okay, but You need to give me a name for the blog so I know it is You!” Later that night about 2:30 am I was awakened to ‘Straight Up’ – followed by, “So much in the Church is dipped in grace and laced with Truth rather than being dipped in Truth and laced with grace.” That is why the blog is ‘StraightUp’. I believe what He gives me to write will be straight up, direct, blunt, challenging, non-sugar coated words. We are in a time where being followers of Jesus doesn’t really mean following His Word or His way, but instead it is a Christianity that fits the ideas of today’s secular culture. We have our get out of hell card, our comfortable lifestyles, and our grace dripping theology where we no longer call out sin, instead we make up some lame response that doesn’t offend anyone. Here is the thing, Truth is offensive! It isn’t meant to make us all feel warm and fuzzy, it is meant to convict the sinner of their sin that we might find forgiveness and redemption in Jesus Christ. If I am to be a voice to wake up the Church, great. If I am just to share lessons He teaches me that will build up and encourage other women in Christ who want to walk a surrendered, obedient walk with Him, awesome. I am just going to walk this out in obedience. So, there you have it- StraightUp!